hen I adopted Adam, a shy five-year-old, I lied about his mother, telling him she had died when he was two. I thought I was protecting him from heartbreak. Years later, now in college, Adam returned home cold and distant. He gave me a newspaper—his mother had actually died only five years ago. “You stole my chance to know her,” he said. I realized my lie, born of love, had cost him years of truth and connection. All I can do now is tell the truth and hope he can forgive me.